This is my first post and I am definitely not going to write anything to make anyone happy or whatever.
Loving someone with borderline is very very very complicated. She might love you — but only at this moment. She will tell you she is with a guy-friend and not even know the pain in your voice or eyes because you are afraid when that guy is around her he might just use her when she is drunk.
Now I am definitely not saying she is a bad person or she is incapable of loving someone — but when you are away for a few hours — it goes away.
I don’t know how to handle this — I think no one does.
It’s not their fault that they have Borderline but sometimes it’s hard.
P.S. The reason I’m using the gender ‘her‘ is because I’m talking and will be talking about my experience with a girl who I love very much.